You have one year to live, tops you find out 5 days before your wedding Day, Do you tell your spouse?

Question:

you get diagnosed with a terminal illness that is incureable, you find out five days before you get married, you have about a year to live and you already told them you cannot have children. Do you live your life like everyday is your last one, or do you spend the remainder of your life going to docter appointments.

Answers:
Yes.
ALWAYS live AUTHENTICALLY no matter what!!

To me, what would be far worse (than telling my fiancée) would be living in fear and less than I am, and then find a cure, etc, realising that I had passed away long before I died.
To me -- That would be the greatest shame!

Besides, marriage is a garden for intimacy to grow, and a situation like this will be great fertilizer.
You will draw together through this.

I ALWAYS live each day like it's my best.and my last. So that everyone I know has always heard and remembered the best and most loving words I would ever have to say.

Live with no regrets. All the time. Regardless.
Live in love, Now.

There can't be any other way.

Other Answers:
Yes, but do slip her the pork first to soften the blow.

yes ,,i think your spouse should know !

Live life to the fullest and you must tell your spouse. It would be wrong not to do so.

Live it out to the fullest while you still can.

**** i would dump the person i was supposed to marry get drunk everyday until about 3 months until i was suppossed to die then rob a bank. HAHAHAHA then if you don't die your screwed. you live what life you have left in prison.

why ur not going to right

well yea tell your soon to be husben he will help you and care for you! and yea you live the rest of your life free! Quit your job and go places! or take all the vacation days and you and your soon to be husban go go go places and live life together as well as you can! i'm sorry!

I think you should live life to the fullest ALL the time..even if you didn't get the news you had one year to live..I also think it would be a good idea to tell your spouse because they has the right to know.
Good Luck!

Yes, if you love them, you tell them. If they love you it won't matter.

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