My aunt is about to pass away they just moved her to hospice and my mom went to maryland to be there for her?

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final hours. it's like she she found out she had caner two weeks ago and suddenly she is going to die. i can't stop crying how can i stop this i have things to do but i just keep crying and my eyes are puffy and red. what would be the best way to ease some of my pain?

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Pray for relief from God for all of you. God will touch your heart, you might cry a different kind of tear with his hand on your heart. A peace comes with acceptance of the Lord in any situation.
God Bless you, and surround you with Angels to carry you throughout this difficult time.
Seek others if you are a believer to pray with you, and for you, as I am now.

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accept facts and . pray

Its best to just cry now. Know that your aunt is in bad, very very bad pain and when its her time she wont have to suffer anymore. Its gonna be okay. GOD is goin to be there with her. Knowing that she isnt suffering anymore should ease your pain. I'm sorry for whats going on. Focus on all the good times, and how she has made you a better person.

If you are employed full time, your employer may offer counseling with a bereavement specialist or therapist after her passing.

Hang in there, be there for her, make more happy memories while you two can!!

Remember times like this in the past, and remember that with time you never forget but there will be days ahead with much to smile about..but for now, visit her. just go with the flow sweetie I know it is so sad when you lose a love one..but all you can do for her now is have her in your thoughts & prayers.. try to think of all the good things she has done for you & everyone. & remember her in your heart for years to come

I am very sorry to hear about your aunt.
alslo keep in mind that she will have no more pain in heaven

its extremely difficult to let go of a loved one.especially in way of death.but dont think of it as the END..she may be in pain.imagine it to be the end of a mortal journey and the beginning of an eternal one.Every journey comes to an end,& it is only fair to makeher not feel unhappy over it.If she was special,show it to her like never bfore:tell her how much u love her,send her things she likes,fill up the hours with calm joy.as for U,the loss may be unbearable,inconsolable.but give urself some time. when my grandmother passed away after suddenly discovering she had cancer, my only consolation was that I knew her final destination. My grandmother is is heaven now and while I still miss her and love her enormously she is in no pain, she is still loved and she is happy. I don't know if you are a Christian person or not but if you aren't I think now would be the time to reflect. The Lord says in Matthew 11:28 "Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Grief is certainly labor. Trust in the Lord and he will provide comfort to you. God bless you.

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