A bit of advice for My grandfather who has stage 3 melenoma?
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What does Grandpa want? you say he is independent physically? How is his mental health? is he capable of making his own decisions? Start there. Maybe you should just ask him what he wants to do. chemotherapy is rigorous treatment - tough for anyone - especially older patients.
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I assume your loved one has been diagnosed with multiple melenoma. Or could he have lymphoma? With lymphoma, one may opt to keep him comfy and simply treat the symptoms. As for melanoma, there is a treatment called IL2. IL meaning Interleukin. Interleukin has been proven to control and/or cure melanoma in appx 8% of the patients.
By no means am I an expert, but have taken care of these type patients. Check with the Cancer Treatment Centers office near you and search for IL2 on the web
Stage 3 is better than stage 4.
The question about what to do is one that only your grandfather can answer. Does he want to continue with drug therapies and their side-effects. (There are many trials investigating drugs other than interferon and IL2. I believe that Nexavar was approved for treating Melanoma, but it only has a stalling effect.)
Does your grandfather mind having the surgeries to remove each successive lymph node? That might be one way to stall the disease, but only if he can stand more surgery/surgeries.
What does his doctor suggest? Have you spoken with another oncologist to get a second opinion?
Good luck. It is a tough prospect to face.
I'm guessing they were removing the lymph nodes to see if the melanoma had spread to the nodes? Basal cells are almost always cured with simple excision. Really the decision is up to your grandfather. If he decides on no treatment, he won't pass away quickly and painlessly. It might take a very rough year or longer to pass away. Doing interferon is no fun but neither is dying from melanoma. The choice is up to your grandad, assuming he still makes his own health decisions. In my experience many old people are much tougher than we younger folks give them credit for being.
Your grandfather has to answer this, what does he want? The skin cancers can spread to lymph nodes but that doesn't mean full lymphoma. He should have the chemo/interferon. Stage 3 will progress to higher stages and spreading more and more until death so he needs to treat it now. Age doesn't matter, you could be 20 and have cancer and treat and live or die, let him decide.
I'm going to be brutaly honest. If you decide to do nothing, considering that -as you said- the cancer has already metastasized, the chances for you grandpa are pretty slim. Melanoma is a bitchy cancer, as long as it's contained is OK, but once it metastasizes one of the common organs it will go invade is the brain. If you let the cancer get there, your grandpa is history in 3 months.
So, let him decide, if he wants to live, go for the treatment, it will buy him another 2-3 years (if it works).
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