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I'v met a girl 3 weeks ago and now we're in love and want to have sex but am really scared if she has a std because she told me that she slept with other guys before.
my question is if it's safe to have sex now(with condom) or wait to take a test then have sex.......and what kind of test(s) she must take to know if she's not infected and how long do they take to give results?

Answers:
Condoms are great at preventing STDs, but they are not 100% effective. Even with using condoms you can STILL get an STD from her if she has one. Certain STDs can be passed by direct skin to skin contact like herpes and HPV. Since the condom only covers the penis it is still possible for you to get either one of these STDs from just the rubbing of the genital areas during sex. And, both of these STDs can be passed when there are no physical signs or symptoms, like sores or warts.

Why don't you two go and both get tested for STDs. You can make a whole day of it - get tested and go out to lunch or something, seriously! It's always better to be safe then sorry!

AACCK! 3 weeks and you're in love? I don't think so, pal.

Obviously you don't trust her. Use a condom.

Get that chick tested before you touch her! No matter how "in love" you are after knowing her for 3 weeks, you aren't in love enough to get a disease that you will have the rest of your life.

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