Would you/do you get your spouse/partner checked for std's before getting involved sexually?
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yeah its a good way to start the relationship off to a good honest start. If you dont it will always be in the back of your mind so just get it over with.
well its a good grounding and an opportunity to be honest and get a medical
of course, unfortunately i made that mistake by not checking her, and now i am stuck with std
Ideally, I would, but both my boyfriend and I are virgins, so I don't see how either of us could have one.
After recently going in for testing of HIV, I will never in my life take on a new sexual partner without going in for testing. During the test and waiting for my results I nearly had a heart attack, I felt awful and swore I had it. It was by far the worst feeling I have ever experienced. I thought of what I would have to tell my children. I thought of risky past partners, I felt like my life was flashing before my very eyes. Then I was called and the test was Negative!!
I cried from relief, I swore that if god had gotten me through this I would never ever take a risk with my sexual health again.
What does it cost you to ask a person to get tested? Nothing, not only will you get respect for it- but both of you will feel better in the end. If the person refuses right off you know something is amiss.
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