Forgiveness is the biggest cleanser of pain. If you agree than how?
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You actually hurt yourself when you hate someone, because you keep thinking of the incident. When you forgive a person, you stop thinking about it and pain is released.
Jesus forgive the people who crucified him because they don't know what they are doing.
If a person does you wrong on Monday, then you will understandably be upset on Monday because of what the person did to you.The person who did you wrong is responsible for your negative feelings on Monday.
If you wake up on Tuesday and the negative feelings are still there because you did not forgive the person who did the wrong, then YOU must accept the responsibility for those OLD negative feelings. Forgiveness enables you to see Tuesday as a new day. Forgiveness allows you the chance to feel good about the present and move forward rather than waste time being negative and dwelling in the past.
Moreover, should you choose to carry the negative feelings associated with a wrong done to you in the past over to a new day it then becomes necessary for you you to forgive yourself ! Self-forgiveness is perhaps the hardest forgiveness of all.
It depends on the type of pain (inflicted wound). If one fractures or meets with an accident the nature of pain is very different from the one described by you. Here it is not forgiveness but proper medication and treatment by doctors.
Rather than forgiving, I beleive in sincere sorting out of matters to cleanse the psychological pain inflicted. The latter puts to rest the issues once for all, while the former can raise its head after a certain period of time !!
yes as its give mindpeace
I do agree, and I have personally learned that the easiest way to forgive someone is by asking God to give you the power to forgive them. Repeat this anytime you have bad or angry thoughts about that person...It is a religious sort of answer, I know, but personally, I believe it works.
Do you mean physical pain or mental pain ?
Forgiveness is the mental, emotional and/or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment, indignation or anger against another person for a perceived offence, difference or mistake, or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution.
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