Hiv obsessed please help?


Question:
Ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. Had unprotected sex once and then got tested for hiv a few months later. than after that i made him get tested maybe a year after i did and he told me it was negative. now we ar eno longer together and im am deadly afraid maybe he lied to me about getting tested, cheated on me and gave me the disease.

i have a swollen lymphnode and we had unprotected sex for about 5minutes before we put a condom on but i was sure of it he got tested but now im worried maybe he lied? its just this one guy im worried about ive never had unprotected sex before this.

id rather not get retested what are the chances of contracting it hypothetically if he was positive? do u get hiv every single time? please i need to put my mind at ease but i dont want to go through getting tested again he said he did.

o please help

Answers:
if you are having so much anxiety just go get CHECKED! peoples opinions wont matter. you either have it or you dont
No speculation please.It will eat your considerable energy.Just visit Dr.,complete tests
Your inflammed lymph node might be due to seasonal infection but still when at doubt it is better to get checked by a professional.
ur boyfriend should go to jail

that's what we ppl in s'pore do when they do that
It's possible. The test for antibodies is not that conclusive. It takes about two weeks for the initial cells to be destroyed. It's possible to only have antibodies present at certain times.
Doctors are not always right. Really try to put your mind at ease and be in touch with your inner self.
Assuming you are in the US or another industrialized country, you clearly have the typical, grossly inflated view of HIV risks of most young people today - the result of unbalanced education that makes sex seem far more riskly than it is. The chances you contracted HIV are virtually non-existent, and unless your ex-boyfriend was either bisexual or an injection drug user, the chances that he had HIV are virtually non-existent as well. Have an HIV test if the negative result will make you feel better, but you really don't need one.
you really shouldnt let people on yahoo freak you out because alot of dont know much about HIV.
First off, the HIV infection rate and people living with HIV in the U.S is .60%, that is about 900,000 people out of 300 mil. The majority of people living with HIV are gay. More than likely you have not contracted HIV, your boyfriend does not have HIV unless your bf has been promscious with other men or prostitutes. Go get tested at a different clinic, they even have free anonymous ones. Its really not embarrassing and the ppl testing you see dozens of ppl everyday so to them you are just another person, but I really doubt you have HIV, its one of the hardest STDS to catch but you still need to be careful
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