Do you think it is okay for a fat person to ask a skinny person to do something for them because they are not?

Question: Heres the situation,.,.,.,.,.im at work and almost on a daily basis I am asked to get out of my seat by this larger lady to go get **** out of the fridge for her,.,.,I always want to tell her to piss off but im a nice guy but also tired of getting things for her,.,.,.the fridge is like 10 feet away,.,.,.I think it makes her feel superior to me because I am much younger than her and kinda her boss,.,..

Answers:
hey. i have the same problem, with the same lady, at the same job lol

It's harder than you guys think to tell her to piss off. She makes this groaning noise when she gets up, like it hurts her

Seriously though, I would hate to have to stand up with all her weight on me but she needs to deal with it because we all got our stuff to overcome in life

Other Answers:
Dude, where is your self respect?

Say no and when she inquires why tell her you aren't her servant.

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id tell her no coz your going to the loo or doing sumthing really important. she will probably loose a few pounds going the extra way every day. sad cow

my boyfriends dad is the same

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sounds like she has a personal issue. Listen she needs to respect you tooo..help each other.but if she just sits there.well thats why her *** is fat and LAZZEEEE

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put her on a diet. if she cant get up to eat, then she needs to go on a diet.she has an ELBOW problem. its always moving in the direction of her mouth. how goes she go to the bathroom if she cant get up to eat?

Depends how fat the fat person is.If he/she is just a little chubby, he/she should do it.

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no it is not ok for that to happen. she is abusing your sense of honor.

I am 6'10 and 425 I ask for help sometimes when something is on the floor or I am carring a package (bad knees use a cane) or I will ask someone to bring me something if it is a distance (not 10 ft)

asking you for something 10ft away. I would tell her to off her a*s and do it.

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I wouldn't care if the person is small, petite, medium, thick, fat, obese, etc I would say."hmm that's funny your legs don't look broken to me" and tell her go get your own pop/soda what have you.

The time I would be more considerate if it was a person who honestly needed the help or say if the person is disabled, but alot if disabled people I have met are more able than the regularly abled peers.

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You're her boss and therefore a gentleman, right? Do it as long as it doesn't get in the way of your work. Ask her if there's anything else you can do for her now that you're up. Turn the other cheek and grin at her if she pats it. i would tell her to get it her self im sorry if she is big then she needs to do it her self sounds to me like she wants you to fell sorry for her

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