Should I tell my friend she's fat?
Question:
Answers:
Let's be honest...this is really not your place to say "you need to lose weight!" You are not the weight police and telling your friend something she already knows is only going to strain your friendship (if you want to call it that). Personally, I believe friends accept you for who you are...faults and all. A friend does not tear you down to your face let alone behind your back (see above).
Believe me, she gets the lowdown from her doctor about her weight so she doesn't need to have a "friend" also nagging at her.
Other Answers:
You should be a real friend for once. No friend would even have to ask this question. I'm glad you aren't my friend.
well I guess at 5-8 inches her weight is not that bad at all, but maybe its something else, is she continuously piling on the weight? then it could be a problem! yoyu should support her take her to the gym or running, but you need to tell her the truth before she goes overboard gd luk
i wouldn't tell her she's fat face to face but maybe you could do some hinting around. like maybe suggest going walking and you go with her and make it seem really positive. then try other things like biking, swimming, or [[things she enjoys]]. it could help her see that she's not in shape,and it could give her the movitation to get in shape.that you won't have put your friendship in danger. it could bonding moments too.
I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL!
xoxo
I'm sure she knows she's heavy. Anything you say to her is going to sound like you're rubbing it in. If she does ask you, tell her looks have nothing to do with your friendship. Maybe you could put kids in the stroller and go for walks together, or go bowling or something.
Are you ashamed to be seen with her for fear it will damage YOUR reputation?
She's your friend....but who's friend are YOU?
Just keep doing what you are doing....taking it any further will hurt her feelings and what would it really accomplish, ya know? Chances are she already knows the answer and by asking you those questions is a way to make her feel better about herself and if you go to her and tell her how you truly view her it will devastate her. If she has gained weight she knows it!!!!! Just continue being a tried and true friend. I know you feel like you are being dishonest with her when you do not answer her truthfully when she asks but what you are doing is trying to avoid hurting her and killing what may be left of her self esteem and in my opinion that is a friend. Like I said earlier, she already knows the answers to her questions she is just looking to you for some kind of reassurance. Don't hurt her feelings, you will feel awful about it in the end and so will she.
and who in the h-- do u think u are you are so Darn stuck on yourself its not funny not everyone loosed baby fat and she counting as u 2 b her friend omg is she fooled i hope she wises up and drop u and never everrrr speaks to u again u looser...i can tell how much u value her friendship by her weight must really bug u huh to type it here u have really serious emotional problems leave it alone u must b a sick person with nut-tin better to do the hammer her go get a real life and try to think out side the box u bitty u r rude and stupid i am glad u r not my friend u 2 faced friend go eat something b happy ill bet your friends a happy person she sure will b when she crams u out yul to u bad girl's i hope u gain weight and stay FATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
She can look in the mirror. Is she blind?
The average size american is a size 14.
More Questions and Answers
- A question on measurements.ladies, help me out please!?
- how do i lose weight?
- I have become a couch potatoe and have gained about 100 pounds, how to I begin exercising again?
- who wants to come on holiday with me then?
- apples..can eating a lot of apples lead to weight gain. if added to a balanced diet?
- How to safely diet.?
- Am i getting fat or not?
- what are good supplements for lifting, and increasing muscle tone and muscle mass.?