If your S.O. was fat when you married them, then lost weight and left you because you were still fat?
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He/she is not an a**hole. This is a lesson in human socialization. When someone loses a significant amount of weight or spends a significant amount of time in a gym facility they are bound to find others that share their enthusiam. This is a turning point for that person. all it takes is for a person to pay a little attention to them for them to steer. This applies whether your fat or not. It's simple psychology. So the issue isn't: he left me becasue I'm fat. the issue is that he/she found a hobby, and instead of playing together, you played apart. Human don't like to play by themselves, so that little attention turned into an addiction. "someone is paying attention to me". The theory is simple: Couples that play together stay together...this can be cooking, biking, gym, etc...but it will always be true. THOSE WHO PLAY TOGETHER STAY TOGETHER.
I'm sorry your going through this. I wish you the best.
No I'll get off my fat *** and loose weight also...
Yes that would make him an a hole. So to get back at him/her lose the wieght yourself and when he/she comes around rub it in their face. If it is you that is the one left behind, move on life is to short to fret over past loves. Good luck.
That sounds like a shallow s.o.b. If he/she really loved you they wouldn't do that. Instead they would encourage you to lose weight or just accept you for who you are. Cut your losses and move on. Do whatever makes you happy and if it is you who got dumped then if losing weight and gaining a healthy lifestyle is what will make you happy then do that, but don't do anything just to gain back somebody who doesn't truly love you for you.
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Possibly, but not necessarily. If he/she only left because you were still fat, then yes. But if you have grown apart because he/she changed as a person being into fitness and you were not, then that is a different story. Might still be an ahole, but there are many reasons relationships fail.
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