Guys: Do you care what your girlfriend eats?

Question:

I am a 5' 7", 38 year-old woman who weighs around 140. My weight has always fluctuated from 130-145. I eat all kinds of foods from healthy to bad, it just depends how I feel. I can feel my body getting gross if I eat too much junk so I'll lay off a few weeks and eat healthy. I run or rollerblade at least an hour every other day. My problem is this: the last 2 boyfriends I've had really made me feel guilty about what I was eating yet they would consume double the amount of bad food I was eating. I'm not rail/model thin, but after looking at the beach this weekend, I feel pretty proud for looking the way I do for my age. And I have next to nothing cellulite! I've never had this problem in relationships and I was wondering if this is a new trend?

Answers:
Girls: do you care what your boyfriend thinks?

You look great. If they don't like your body, they can LEAVE.

well, yes and no. I really dont care what a gf eats as long as she is staying in shape (doesnt mean skinny for defined). If she isnt in shape then the types of food she eats becomes a problem. The issue maybe that the guys probably want you to lose a little weight.

I really don't care what they eat as it's their choice. My last gf ate just as much as I did and I didn't care. However towards the end of our relationship she started getting really lazy and not doing anything at all but sitting on the couch all day and she started putting on weight.

I don't care.

My boyfriend did...he tried to get me to eat a butt-load of junk food. I didn't, though...=]
I think they just don't want you to be really fat & lazy. You can be fat & fit, though.

They shouldn't care. If your boyfriend cares about the amount of food you eat, he either: a) is stingy with money or b) has no respect for you and wants you as some kind of trophy. Be proud of how you look! You sound fine to me! Weight fluctuation happens to the best of us so no worries there. If you're 38 and have no cellulite, you're probably looking better than half the world!

Have a wonderful day :)

And eat as much as you want - as long as it's all healthy and you keep on your feet.

Well could be some of these "Boys" just don't have proper manors of how to treat a lady.

The only thing I could side with them on is being out on a dinner date when the lady buys the most expensive meal, drinks and so forth Just to be doing so to see if the guy will put up with her. Or getting a meal then only picking and not or hardly touching any.

I think you've just had some jerky dates is all.

Guys: Do you care what your girlfriend eats?

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