I am a Pedophile, Help?

Question:

Hey everyone,
Thank you for checking out my post.
Im not here to be in anyway, sick, perverted or weird. Im a 9th grade student and i am in seek of help.
Eversince i can remember I have been always attracted to little girls. When i was young i loved girls and now that im old i don't think i ever grew out of it. Before i even go on you are prolly thinking this kids a sick pedophile and should be shot.
But your right, it is wrong to violate innocent children in sexual ways and it is perversion to even think of them as sexy in any way shape or form. But what can i do about it
huh? I admit im wrong and i been trying so hard to change.

I mean have you ever just sat down and thought maybe that some people are born the way they are..
My parents love me and i had a great childhood,
But for some reason i find children beautiful in so many ways.
I have friends, i go to the movies i hang with friends
I do what kids do.
But why?
I want to change. But how am i suppose to.

Please
Answers:
If you have never touched a child you have done nothing wrong YET. That you recognise that this is a problem is a good thing, and you have to seek professional help in regard to it.

In your posting you say that maybe people are just born that way - it is possible, but by doing this you are liking your sexual appetites to those of a homosexual. There is nothing at all similar about the two. Homosexuals have CONSENTING sex between people who are experienced enough in life to make a judgement call of what they want done to them.

By liking the two or liking your condition to other sexual fetishes that are between two consenting ADULTS, you are trying to validate your feelings in an effort to allow you to give into your urges, this is very dangerous and you have to stop this.

Even if a child agrees to something, it is not experienced enough to make an informed decision on the outcome of its actions, so therefor it is wrong to act out any of your sexual fantasies on them.

Seek out psychiatrist or psychologists and explain to them what you have put in the posting, through there help you should be able to resist this temptation and move onto relationships with consenting adults.

This is assuming that you have not lived out any of your fantasy's yet. If you have you also should hand yourself into the police, as the person that you violated will require some comfort and will only be able to do this by knowing that you are punished for what you did to them.

Other Answers:
First of all, you are smart to admit it and to seek help. Get counseling before you act out your urges. You already know that to do so would cause deep and irreparable harm to a child. I don't know if pedophelia can be cured. But get counseling right away to help yourself control your urges. Your parents can help you with this.

I think you should see a therapist. Have you done anything drastic like rape someone or anything like that? Because if you haven't I don't know.. you don't seem like a pedofile.
Try expressing yourself thru art!

Please go and see a psychiatrist now..That is the best advice you will get.

all i can say is the only way you'll ever get anywhere near change is if you truly want to do it for yourself. also, i think u might want to look into professional help. there are many professional resources out there that can help u. i hope this all works out for the good.

It is all in your pituitary gland,
thake a 10 inch nail, seriousely. Shove it through the inner side of your eye all the way in and try to smash your pituitary glend. After you do that you will not like kids anymore.

Oh, and you may also chooose to go to a shrink

For your sake and and your family seek help..immediatly. I am a mother of 5, at lest tell your mom, she will help you too. My view is to have all pedophiles dongs cut right off. No child should be touched in that way.
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Is it possible that you were molested when you were younger? It is possible that you have blocked it out so completely that you have no memory of it. You must talk to a counselor or therapist right away before you ruin your own life and the lives of others. You sound like a very intelligent person. Please get help.

You are a noble person to have admitted this.Anyway there are people like you.There is nothing wrong with it.I suggest you go to a counselor.Everything will be fine.
Good luck.

well at least you admitted it and u want to do something about it.all of our best advice for you is thet u sjould seek help and dont do anything stupid because the consequences can be very bad and the child could suffer a lot.imagine if it was you.ur a 12 year old boy and a 30 year old woman tried to rape you.think about it.good luck and think alot before you act.

How strong is that you feel for kids? personally I find some little girls cute, "baby cute". Some people (friends mostly) confuse that with pedophylia which pisses me off, they show to actually be the sick ones. Girls, will always be girls, and so appealing to a male eye. It's just the grade of appeal, from cute little girl to a hot grown up woman. If you don't have desires of sexual nature toward little girls, then you are ok. If you do, try getting counseling.

I agree with going to a therapist, counselor, or whatever you want to call them. I was molested by multiple predators while I was growing up. I do not know if they have these kind of meetings where you are, but, I used to go to AMAC( adults molested as children) it was group therapy where pedophiles and the victims got together about their problems. But I do not know what else to say. Go to your parents.

You need to serious think about mental and/or physical castration. For the sake of other peoples well-being. You NEED to make this public. Now. Start by telling a doctor or teacher or even your parents since you say that you have a good relationship with them. Don't think you are innocent. If you do not take action against yourself you are considered a predator and will hopefully be caught. I, a seemingly normal person, would in an instant take the life of whomever touched my child or would attempt to do so. Get help. NOW.

i think you no what you are thinking is wrong .and you no you need help. talk to the school councler and let them suggest the right kind of help for you .before you act out on your thoughts.Once a pedophile reaches the point where they feel they're showing love, a very dangerous situation arises every time a child rejects them, or someone tries to stop them. Just like many rejected lovers, many pedophiles won't stop. They may escalate and add violent force to the rape, murder the child, murder the whole family of the child.anything to get their pent up desire met. Often, once force is used, even in the case of murder, the sex drive gets attached to that behavior and the molester can't achieve sexual satisfaction without the violence. If you find yourself attracted to children but haven't yet moved into these extreme behaviors, get help to get it stopped now. It isn't just curiosity.this is where you're headed. Stop it now!

If you find yourself attracted to children, here are some steps you must take to control yourself:
1. Never allow yourself to be alone with a child, not even yours.
2. Never allow yourself to dwell on erotic thoughts about children.force them out with other thoughts.
3. Never allow yourself to view erotic images of anyone. Even stay away from underwear and bathing suit commercials.anything that gives you the wrong ideas.
4. Never go to swimming pools, dance studios, playgrounds or anywhere else that gives you temptation.
5. Never allow yourself to masturbate or to think of others while making love with your spouse.
6. Find a trusted friend or family member (your spouse if married) to be accountable to. Tell them everything and ask them to keep an eye on you and confront you about this issue.

By following these steps and keeping the battle in your mind, you can get control of your behavior.

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